update: it would appear that all is well, mostly because as matt put it "you are way too good of a sister" (matt feels he would never talk to his brother again if they had a fight like that). but we had a few email exchanges and she apologized... so i let it go, and she seems not to mind anymore if i use the name. we'll see when i talk to her in person.
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i am so hurt right now. my sister sent me the nastiest email i have ever read in my life, and i just spent the last 35 minutes sobbing to my mom on the phone about it. at work.
i'm too upset to go into detail right now but suffice it to say i "stole her girl name" and instead of telling me how much it meant to her and talking to me about choosing something else, she decided to lash out hatefully via email.
bottom line: lily will not be my daughter's first name.
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i am so hurt right now. my sister sent me the nastiest email i have ever read in my life, and i just spent the last 35 minutes sobbing to my mom on the phone about it. at work.
i'm too upset to go into detail right now but suffice it to say i "stole her girl name" and instead of telling me how much it meant to her and talking to me about choosing something else, she decided to lash out hatefully via email.
bottom line: lily will not be my daughter's first name.
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